Ways & Means. How To Deal With Difficulty. Dear Friend,
You've probably never heard of Peres Jepchirchir. She is the dynamo Kenyan athlete who won and broke the women's record at the London 2024 marathon last Sunday.
Being able to run 42 km (26 miles) in 2 hours and 16 minutes in not the best weather and with uphill stretches, must mean that she has certain qualities of endurance and stamina, that could teach all of us how to better cope with any kind of difficulty.
Here's what she said when interviewed after the race:
" Consistency, discipline, and relentless determination are the cornerstones of my success. Every race I push myself beyond my limits, leaving nothing on the course. I train with purpose, focusing on both physical and mental strength. Whether it's mile one or mile 26, I stay focused, stay hungry, stay relentless until I cross that finish line."
This approach to a challenge is what psychologists call a problem-solving coping mechanism. It's the the head-on, deal-with-it approach which is usually regarded as the best.
Other coping mechanisms that psychologists say we use, include:- Procrastination ('I don't want to think about it now')
- Social Support ('A problem shared...')
- Drugs & Booze (' I'd rather be in another world')
- Self Care (' I can make myself strong and get over this')
Examples of Self Care that are cited include : Journaling, Yoga and Meditation.
Your daily Kundalini meditation makes you Zen and any difficulty, problem or challenge you face, disappears. More below.
Also below: Sitting and watching the flames of a special kind of fire can do things for you that you'd never have imagined; and, a tip for quickly lifting your mood in 3 minutes.
Best wishesP. PS. Moon Calendar (at end) this coming week: Tue 30th April - Saptami ( Go for it!) ; Thurs. 2nd May - Navami ( Be bold. You're protected); Sat. 4th - Ekadashi ( Get rid of things) ; Sun. 5th - Sahasrara Day (Achieving goals). |
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