Plug & Play - Resolving Mental & Emotional Conflict. Dear Friend,
What would you do if you discovered that a colleague at work doing the same job as you, and who occasionally leans on you for assistance, is being paid more?
You can't storm into your manager's office with all guns blazing, demanding that the injustice immediately be put right.
The reason is that you'd be at a distinct disadvantage in getting your way.
According to Transactional Analysis in psychology we each carry 3 ego states: Parent, Adult and Child. So in this scenario it would be your child ego going in there to ask your boss, the parent, for the equivalent of more chocolate.
And what do parents say? "No, sweetheart . Too much chocolate is not good for for you".
You'd have a better chance of success by waiting until your adult ego-state is back in charge and then using reasoned negotiating tactics to appeal to your boss in their adult ego-state where the power-imbalance is removed.
If the nature of your sense of dissatisfaction about anything is such that it can't be externally negotiated to put you in a better place, then go inside yourself.
Within you are all 3 ego-states of parent, adult, and child and by the simple act of 'plug & play' which is your Kundalini meditation, you can bring them into harmonious unity.
This is how the mental and emotional conflicts that underlie a lot of dissatisfaction is resolved. More below.
Also below: Ideas for a consolation gift to any of your friends who missed out on a free ticket to the event at Porchester Hall; and, attention-training to get to your happy place.
Best wishesP. PS. Moon Calendar (at end) this coming week: Mon. 27th Nov. - Purnima /Full moon / Guru Nanak Jayanti; Tues.28th (solar calendar) - William Blake (Shri Bhairava) Birthday. |
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