Getting Real. How You Can Conquer Imposter Syndrome. Dear Friend,
You may not think you've ever felt like a fake but the imposter syndrome may be an essential armoury in the rat race -hence the term: 'fake it, till you make it'.
There's far less hassle, however, in being true to yourself . Your kundalini gets you there.
There are two vivid moments in my varied career when I've known that I was being an imposter.
The first time was when I was working at a financial brokerage firm in the city and was on the phone to a client, glibly running through a pitch for the millionth time, about how the commodities market was ripe for them to reap a huge profit by investing their spare cash.
The sales pitch depended on me having more knowledge than the client but on this occasion the gods frowned. The person I was talking to was a professor of economics, who began to pick holes in my economic reasoning. Huge embarrassment. I did not make the sale and the call quickly ended.
The second bout of imposter syndrome was when I was working in 'big pharma' and attended a conference organised by one of our vendors - a seller of molecular structure visualisation software.
When registering for the conference I must have missed out my title because on picking up my name badge at the venue, the title that had been placed in front of my name was not 'Mr.' It was 'Dr.'.
This did puff me up with unearned pride for about five seconds when I saw the mistake, but then I did have to spend much of the conference avoiding conversations with other attendees who were mostly all genuine PhDs, lest I got asked the innocent question of what my PhD was in.
So finding yourself an imposter in a work setting is easily recognised. But it's the subtle form of being an imposter to ourselves that's not easily recognised. This is part of everybody's mental make-up created by the bind of our ego and conditionings.
Get free and get real. more below.
Also below: how to keep the vibes flowing from your meditation photo, so that it continues to support your ascent; and, a guided meditation to help you 'think' with your heart so that you get what you wish for.
A quick shout-out to Daniella for sharing your experiences with me about the synchronicity that's started happening to you even after a few weeks of consistent regular meditation. Yes, a lot of people begin to notice this with Sahaja yoga meditation. Keep going!
Finally, a WeMeditate app is being developed so that you can have sahaj meditations at your finger tips whenever you want. If you'd like a beta version to try and then provide feedback on, simply reply 'Yes' to this newsletter and Anjani will email you the download link.
Best wishesP. PS. Moon Calendar (at end) this coming week: Mon. 24th Oct - Lakshmi Puja (celebration of the goddess of wealth - buy gold). Tues. 25th - Amavasya (New Moon); Fri. 28th - Vinayaka Chaturthi (Overcoming obstacles). |
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