"And They Lived Happily Ever After". How To Do A Compatibility Check. Dear Friend,
By now you may be basking in the warm after-glow of Valentine's day just gone.
To give you some insight into how things are likely to develop, understanding a little bit about Attachment Theory could be useful to you.
If you haven't already come across this piece of pop psychology, here it is in a nutshell.
The kind of relationship you tend to form with a significant other when you are an adult, is strongly influenced by the kind of relationship you had with your parents or primary care-giver when you were a baby.
This defines your 'Attachment style' . Four kinds of attachment style have been identified. These are : 1. Secure, 2. Anxious, 3. Avoidant, 4. Disorganized.
No prize for guessing which of these styles is the ideal. But life isn't perfect (yet) and there may be many happy unions between the Anxious and the Avoidant or Disorganized.
To see how that might work out, you could skim read this popular book on the topic : Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment - Amir Levine M.D and Rachel Heller M.A
Or, you could just use your vibes to do a compatibility check . More below.
Also below: An exercise for brightening your eyes with candle light; and, giving yourself a reason to jump for joy.
Best wishesP. PS. Moon Calendar (at end) this coming week: Wed.19th February - Saptami (Lucky 7th - things work out); Fri. 21st - Navami (You're protected). |
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